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Organising my children and getting them to take more Responsibility

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I need to organise my children this year, giving them more responsibility around the home, making life less stressful. Check out the new charts I have created after a great chat with my aunt.

 

2011 seems a little of a blur to me now. Life was so busy. I started back working 2 days a week taking on a job that required lots of work, so I think I got overwhelmed and with the kids, their activities and jobs on the home front, I let myself get stressed and Kids Learning is Fun got put on the backburner.

This year it is time to be more organised. The holiday period was a great time to relax, rest and reflect over what has happened and also a great time to catch up with family and friends. During this time and at one of our family gatherings I had a good chat to my aunty who raised 3 beautiful, intelligent girls. She said many things but one I really liked was her idea of how her children took responsibility in the home. I have taken on her idea, modified it slightly and added an incentive plan for my 3 boys, hoping to reduce the stress of last year.

My aunty would organise each of her girls with jobs and also other tasks she would like them to do by their age. Each child would get the same number of jobs as their age – so age 10 would get 10 jobs/tasks etc.


With my boys I wanted them to have jobs in the house (the older the more chores) as well as tasks I am constantly having to remind them to do or that I am getting tired of constantly doing for them. As the jobs/tasks become more of a habit for them, I will change and alter the jobs/tasks depending on each child. I have also decided to include pocket money with my charts, amounts also dependent on the age of the child, reflecting the level of responsibility.

Along with the charts we have opened bank accounts for the boys and at the end of each week I will deposit their pocket money in their accounts and let them watch the money grow. Each has decided that they are saving for a particular item so it will allow them to watch their goal getting closer.

Love you to share how you get your children to take more responsibility around the house.

Happy New Year to you all.

 

 

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Jodie Maher

My name is Jodie. This has been a kind of dream of mine to be able to create a site or business like this around something I love. I am a primary school teacher currently taking leave to look after my three beautiful boys, who are 9, 5 and 3.

While I haven't taught my whole working career, it has always been something I have always wanted to do. My mother is a teacher and as a young child I always remember helping her to mark papers (only the true/false or multiple choice answers) knowing that this was something I would do when I grew up. My brother and sister were many times subjected to sitting down at a table with paper and pencils and me standing up front at the blackboard teaching them something or other. I always respected my teachers and knew that they had a special job.

I probably respected my high school teachers too much when they convinced me that teaching wasn't a profession I wanted to be in and I should use my brains in the area of business. And yes I worked in the shipping industry for about 8 years, but kept my interest in the area of teaching children by being a Brownie Guide and Girl Guide leader for many years.

I finally had enough of the business world and turned to my first love of teaching. I love being in the classroom and watching young minds grow and develop. So much happens over a year in the mind of a child, and as a teacher you are there to help that happen. It is a very rewarding job.

With the birth of my children, I felt that I really wanted to be at home for them. This has given my an outlet to use my knowledge and skills to help parents with their children's education. I too find this very rewarding. Becoming a parent with a child at school has allowed me to see that there are things about a child's education that don't always make sense to parents. I have friends with children who will often ask me to explain something their child's teacher has said or they have come across in a newsletter.

The experience of putting this website together has been wonderful. I have learnt much myself about the world of computers and the internet, and it is ongoing learning.

So I hope that you may get as much from this site as I get from putting it together for you.

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